Reiki for Relationship Healing: Energy Blocks & How to Fix Them

Relationships do not break in a single moment. They weaken slowly—through emotional distance, unspoken hurts, and invisible energetic imbalances. As someone who believes in spiritual and energy healing, you already know this truth:

Before a relationship cracks physically, it cracks energetically.

Reiki helps you understand why your partner is acting distant, cold, unavailable, or confused—because energy reveals the truth before words do.

In this guide, you will discover:

• The major energy blocks that silently push your partner away
• How these blocks show up in everyday behaviour
• Powerful Reiki techniques to heal the energy between you
• How to restore love, communication, and emotional connection

What Are Relationship Energy Blocks?

Every relationship carries a combined energetic field, often called the relationship aura. This shared field holds emotions, memories, past wounds, unspoken fears, expectations, and even karmic ties.

When this field becomes blocked or heavy, you may notice:

• Sudden fights or arguments over small things
• Frequent misunderstandings and confusion
• Your partner becoming unavailable or emotionally distant
• A feeling of being unloved or unimportant
• Avoidance of communication or difficult conversations
• Fear of breakups or abandonment
• Insecurity, attachment, and anxiety in love

Reiki works by clearing these invisible blocks so both partners feel safe, valued, and emotionally connected again. When energy flows freely, love naturally feels easier, lighter, and more stable.

5 Energy Blocks That Push Your Partner Away

The following blocks are very common in modern relationships, especially for sensitive and intuitive souls.

1. Heart Chakra Block – Emotional Closeness Breaks Down

The heart chakra is the center of love, compassion, and emotional safety. When the heart is blocked, the connection starts to feel cold, confusing, or one-sided.

Signs of a heart chakra block in relationships include:

• Your partner struggles to express feelings
• You feel unloved, unwanted, or taken for granted
• Fear of vulnerability or emotional intimacy
• Emotional numbness or shut down
• Partner pulling away without a clear reason
• Overthinking, insecurity, and attachment issues

This often happens because of old heartbreaks, abandonment wounds, or disappointment from past relationships. The heart closes to protect itself, but in doing so, it blocks love from flowing freely.

Reiki gently softens these emotional walls and invites warmth, forgiveness, and openness back into the connection.

2. Sacral Chakra Block – Passion, Desire And Attraction Drop

The sacral chakra governs emotions, sensuality, and pleasure. When blocked, the relationship may start to feel flat or disconnected.

Common signs include:

• Lack of intimacy or reduced physical closeness
• Decreased attraction or chemistry
• Emotional frustration and moodiness
• Feeling undesired or rejected
• Cold behaviour or lack of warmth

This block often stems from guilt, shame, unmet emotional needs, or suppressed emotions. Reiki helps the sacral chakra regain flow, restoring emotional and physical compatibility and a natural sense of joy in the relationship.

3. Solar Plexus Block – Ego Clashes And Power Struggles

The solar plexus chakra is the center of personal power, self-worth, and boundaries. When out of balance, it can create ego battles in relationships.

It may show up as:

• Dominating or controlling behaviour
• Defensiveness and constant arguments
• Your partner becoming easily irritated or distant
• Struggle for control or “who is right”
• Unresolved anger and frustration

This block is usually rooted in insecurity, fear of losing control, or feeling emotionally overwhelmed. Reiki brings calm to the solar plexus area, softens ego-based reactions, and helps both partners return to harmony instead of conflict.

4. Throat Chakra Block – Miscommunication And Silence

The throat chakra deals with truth, expression, and communication. When blocked, you may feel like you are never fully heard or understood.

Signs of a throat chakra block include:

• Misunderstandings and mixed signals
• Fear of speaking honestly
• Silent treatment or emotional withdrawal
• Your partner avoiding serious conversations
• Struggle to express needs and feelings

Many people have past trauma linked to speaking their truth, so they shut down instead. Reiki releases these fears and supports open, kind, and authentic communication.

5. Root Chakra Block – Fear Of Commitment And Emotional Instability

The root chakra is all about safety, stability, and grounding. When it is blocked in a relationship, you may feel uncertain and insecure about the future.

Common signs are:

• Partner giving hot-and-cold signals
• Fear of long-term commitment
• Avoidance of future planning
• Sudden withdrawal when things get serious
• Financial or career stress affecting the relationship

These fears are often connected to survival worries, childhood instability, or past betrayals. Reiki helps restore grounding and inner safety so the relationship feels more secure and consistent.

How To Fix These Blocks With Reiki

Here are some simple yet powerful Reiki practices you can use regularly to heal relationship energy.

1. Heart Chakra Healing For Emotional Bonding

Use this when you feel distance, coldness, or emotional numbness.

1. Sit or lie down comfortably and close your eyes.
2. Place both hands gently on the center of your chest.
3. Take a few deep breaths and intend to activate Reiki.
4. Visualize a soft green light expanding from your heart outward.
5. Once you feel calm, imagine sending this green light toward your partner, surrounding them in love and compassion.

Affirm silently: “I open to giving and receiving love freely. Our hearts are safe and connected.”

This practice helps heal old heartbreaks, soften emotional walls, and restore emotional closeness.

2. Relationship Cord Healing To Release Past Hurt

Every relationship has energetic cords connecting the two people. Some cords nourish; others hold pain and past hurt.

1. Sit quietly and close your eyes.
2. Visualize you and your partner standing facing each other.
3. See a silver cord connecting your hearts or solar plexus.
4. Activate Reiki in your hands and mentally send Reiki through this cord.
5. Visualize any dark patches, heaviness, or knots along the cord dissolving into light.

Intend that only healthy, loving, and supportive energy remains between you. This technique clears resentment, old fights, and emotional heaviness from the connection.

3. Pink Aura Reiki To Restore Love And Attraction

This is powerful if you feel the romance, warmth, or attraction has faded.

1. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths.
2. Visualize your entire aura turning soft pink, like a gentle rose light.
3. Now imagine your partner standing beside you, also surrounded by this pink glow.
4. See both your auras blending into a shared pink field of love, safety, and softness.

Repeat: “Our connection is loving, warm, and open. We attract each other with kindness and respect.”

This helps bring back emotional comfort, sweetness, and loving energy between you.

4. Solar Plexus Reiki To End Ego Fights

Use this technique when arguments become frequent or when you feel triggered easily.

1. Place both hands on your upper abdomen, just above the navel.
2. Breathe deeply and let Reiki flow into the area.
3. Visualize a golden light filling your solar plexus, calming all tension.
4. Intend to release the need to control, dominate, or win.

Affirm: “I release ego battles and choose harmony. I am safe even when I am vulnerable.”

This practice helps you respond, not react, and reduces power struggles in the relationship.

5. Throat Chakra Reiki For Healthy Communication

When you cannot express your needs or your partner refuses to talk, focus on the throat chakra.

1. Place your hands gently on your throat.
2. Visualize a bright blue light shining at your throat center.
3. Allow Reiki to flow and soften any tightness or pressure.
4. Intend that both you and your partner feel safe to speak honestly and kindly.

Affirm: “Communication between us flows clearly, calmly, and truthfully.”

This healing supports honest, soulful conversations and reduces misunderstandings.

Signs Your Relationship Is Healing Through Reiki

With consistent Reiki practice over 7 to 21 days, you may begin to notice:

• More warmth and softness in your interactions
• Your partner reaching out more often
• Reduced tension, arguments, or misunderstandings
• Deeper, more honest conversations
• Feeling emotionally safe and secure again
• Renewed attraction and closeness
• More clarity and less overthinking

Reiki does not force someone to behave a certain way. Instead, it clears fear, pain, and heavy energy so that both people can choose from a place of love, not fear.

Using Reiki In Separation, No Contact, Or Breakup Phases

Even if you are in separation, limited contact, or a breakup phase, Reiki can still support healing. You can:

• Send Reiki to your own heart to release pain and attachment
• Send distant Reiki to the situation for peace and clarity
• Heal karmic and emotional patterns that keep repeating
• Soften anger, resentment, and emotional shock on both sides

Many people notice that as their own energy becomes lighter and balanced, communication reconnects naturally or closure happens with more peace.

Final Thoughts: Reiki Transforms Love When Logic Fails

There are times when talking is not enough, logic does not make sense, and nothing you say seems to work. That is where Reiki steps in. It heals what you cannot see—energy, emotions, and subconscious wounds.

By clearing blocks in your heart, mind, and chakras, you change the entire vibration of your relationship. Healing yourself is the first step to healing your connection with your partner.

Love is energy. When the energy flows, love grows.